@evd thanks for responding! I'm also on a waitlist for Rutgers so I'm going to wait a little longer to respond. It's too bad the cost of living is high in the area surrounding purchase. If it was more affordable my choice would be easy.
I am personally pretty excited about the option. I like the faculty work there and the structure of the program. They offer TAships and the opportunity to teach a self-designed class during the MFA, they have a field trip class to NYC and a great visiting artist program that the graduate students are allowed to chime in with suggestions for people to bring in. I'm really happy to be accepted.