KevinYoungX - I think you should perhaps revise your opinion of places like Jordan and Morocco. Having studied for quite awhile in Jordan, I have a number of friends who are also white American Zionists (and anti-Zionists) who have had no problem living in Jordan. You would, perhaps, be amazed at the safety of Jordan and Morocco. Additionally, you may or may not be aware that Israelis are fully able to travel to Morocco and many do; Morocco never renounced the citizenship of its Jewish population that left for Israel in the 50s-70s. Morocco also has an embassy in Tel Aviv.
As for being gay, yes, this is a problem in much of the Middle East, but it isn't as though someone can look at you and tell that you are either a) gay or a Zionist. You shouldn't have any problems.
I would say that, unless your interests are solely in Israeli and Palestinian society (which it sounds like they're not), then you should invest some time in studying abroad in the Arab Middle East. Kurdistan is out of the question, naturally, and unfortunately places like Syria that were popular in years past are now generally off the list. Yet Morocco, Lebanon, Tunisia, Jordan, the Gulf and even Egypt are not out of the question. This would also likely help you expand your list of inspirations, which seem to consist of many Orientalist scholars not well thought of in the Middle East studies academy. Read some Said, for instance. You also definitely need to have a strong foundation of Arabic for jobs inside the academy and out in the policy world, if your focus is on the Arab Middle East and not just the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.