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  1. Thanks all! The encouragement really helps.

     

    It looks like I'll be headed to Case Western. It isn't my dream school, I'll admit. But I need to remind myself that I had good reasons for applying in the first place, and I should be very grateful that I got in. There are some awesome scholars there with whom I look forward to working, and the community of grad students seems really supportive and great. And Cleveland might be a cool town? Or at least have its points.

     

    We're all at the time of the season where it's easy to spend a lot of energy thinking about what might have happened or what we should have done to get where we dreamed of going. Trying to focus on the great things ahead and not get too hung up on all that jazz. So if I start to get too wistful (Two roads diverged &c &c) somebody pinch me or something.

  2. At Boston College there is one last offer out, and I am next on the waitlist. The school's my top choice. It's a coin flip. I spend my days willing this one person to not accept.

     

    Hey person. Go someplace else. If you've spent this long thinking about it it clearly isn't a slam dunk decision for you. It would be a slam dunk for me.

     

    Those are the kinds of things I say to them inside my brain.

  3. Have a funny visit story for one of my waitlist schools. Was only able to be in town for a few hours today, so I was scheduled to meet with DGS, chat with a grad student, and attend class with one of my POIs (the other two are on leave, so I couldn't meet them). Meetings went well enough, but when I showed up to the class (which I had arranged to visit in advance), the classroom was empty. I waited a few minutes. Nobody showed up. I made sure I was in the right room, then the right building (after all, I'm not familiar with the campus). I was. The class just...wasn't happening. I went to the office of the DGS, but she had gone home for the day. She was my only point-person. 

     

    Actually it isn't that funny of a story. I am now at the airport. I came to town specifically to visit campus, and I didn't get to meet a single faculty member in my area. Writing this was cathartic, though. I'm sure it was just a mixup, but it was pretty annoying.

  4. So I wonder what the forum has to say about these two programs, if anything. I also plan on going somewhere different for my PhD, so I am curious if anybody has any opinions about which program might give a better leg up when that application season comes around (of course, it is up to me to create a good application, but every little bit helps when you're trying to get into a top PhD school).

     

    I'm an Americanist MA student at Mizzou, you can PM me if you'd like more info.

  5. Has anyone gotten in off the waitlist at UMD yet? I'm flying in for the open house next week, but I haven't heard any news regarding the chances of the waitlist converting. Little bit anxious about it -- I've more or less narrowed my decision down to Ohio State and Maryland, but I don't even know if the latter is really even an option. 

     

    Hooray for visiting places while still on the waitlist! (Awkward high five like a golfer with his caddy after a putt.) I feel like if nothing else it shows real interest in the program, which maybe could work out for us? Anyhow, I"m in the exact same boat with Rochester. Hopefully will get some answers next week when visiting.

  6. I think this 

     

    Ermm. I saw the thing on the results board about how Toronto has changed statuses to "Decision Made" and will be sending out letters. I am on their wait list... but I can't imagine they're sending out a letter to confirm that with me. Does it mean that they've taken everyone off the wait list that they can and are sending out rejections now?

     

    is one of those situations where it's pretty much impossible to read the tea leaves. Who knows who makes the changes on that website? My guess would be that it's an admin person for the grad school that has little knowledge of the decision-making process of individual departments. At many schools I've heard from (waitlist and otherwise) my status on the website never actually changed one way or the other, changed way late, etc. If you've already heard from them, your "Decision Made" moment happened a while ago, and I very much doubt that you' should assume the worst just cuz they have to mail notifications to a wave of rejected folks who were never on the list in the first place.

  7. I think this 

     

    Ermm. I saw the thing on the results board about how Toronto has changed statuses to "Decision Made" and will be sending out letters. I am on their wait list... but I can't imagine they're sending out a letter to confirm that with me. Does it mean that they've taken everyone off the wait list that they can and are sending out rejections now?

     

    is one of those situations where it's pretty much impossible to read the tea leaves. Who knows who makes the changes on that website? My guess would be that it's an admin person for the grad school that has little knowledge of the decision-making process of individual departments. At many schools I've heard from (waitlist and otherwise) my status on the website never actually changed one way or the other, changed way late, etc. If you've already heard from them, your "Decision Made" moment happened a while ago, and I very much doubt that you' should assume the worst just cuz they have to mail notifications to a wave of rejected folks who were never on the list in the first place.

  8. I've set up visits at both schools that I'm wait listed at. Actually, both DGSs seemed quite eager, or at least willing, to have me come. The rationale from my POV being, if I were to be accepted by either of them around April 15, I would need to have that visit under my belt in order to make my final decision. Which I suppose is true. But it still feels kind of awkward showing up and going through the motions of a visit and not being sure if this place will ever even be a legitimate option for me. Especially since by the time I get there (my spring break is in two weeks) they'll probably have a pretty decent idea of whether I'm gonna get off the wait list. 

     

    This could either go really well or really poorly, I guess is what I'm saying.

  9. I just read Sanctuary for the first time...

     

    :mellow:

     

    Currently writing my MA thesis on Faulkner and film. In theory, I'm finishing a chapter on Sanctuary this week. My mind is getting to be quite warped.

     

    More generally, I like reading book reviews, probably too much. My research focuses on how novels/films get discussed in popular discourses. Super interested in how both novelists and popular reviewers negotiated the advent of film. 

     

    This thread is cool and good.

  10. How important is ranking when your potential schools are ranked closely, within one level of each other? Should you automatically go with the one ranked higher just cause? I ask because Austin is looking better and better but I do have that wait list at unc, which is one spot ahead of ut)

     

    From all the advice I've ever gotten, if they're that close fit should win the day. But others may disagree?

  11. I only got accepted to Tufts PhD and Northeastern MA, waitlisted at UNC Chapel Hill and Boston University. Not sure if I want to wait until I hear something more decisive from BU or UNC or just accept Tufts. Rank is unfortunately weighing pretty heavily on my mind, although I really like the sound of Tufts's department and almost everything else about it. Any thoughts? 

     

    Is there a possibility of visiting either school that has waitlisted you (Esp BU, since you'll probably be in the area at some point to look into Tufts)? I'm on a couple of waitlists, and they've been really nice about accommodating a visit from me, making me feel very welcome and showing me the program so that I can think more clearly about my options. It's possible that you could solidify your thoughts about a school without waiting to see if you're off the list first.

  12. \While I am amongst those who are suffering in wait list purgatorio, I've tried to be very careful not to pester or beg others to turn down their offers. They deserve all the time they need to make a very, very important and tough decision!

    Ditto to this. I find myself wanting people to turn down offers so that AYE can get into more schools and take MY time to muddle though my decision. Which, you know. Isn't really all that much better, since then I'll be sitting on spots that somebody else wants. I need to remind myself: in the end we'll all have plenty of time to figure it out.

  13. Honestly, I've been avoiding this thread like the plague because of the title ("I'm getting rejections and complaining to my friends, why would I want to go and read a thread where people are complaining and feeling equally bad?" I stupidly asked myself). Of course I should have given GC more credit, as everyone on here is being really supportive and awesome. I guess I have two things to add:

     

    First, on the "getting into grad school is a major crap-shoot" side of things. I am in the second year of an MA. This means that I've seen three app cycles at my school (my cohort, this year's,  and next fall's). My school has a couple of prominent faculty who are contemporary Americanists, and we always get a ton of apps in that field. Now, the cohort before mine, through the vagaries of the wait list, ended up with like 6 people from that field. A couple of more got in my year. That meant that last year, people applying in that field had little to no chance of getting in -- the faculty advisers in those fields were just swamped. We admitted a bunch of medieval people to sort of balance out the department. OF COURSE these new students are awesome and deserved to get in, but equally deserving contemporaryists probably got snubbed. But how could you possibly account for this if you're a comtemporaryist applicant? Answer: you couldn't, and it's unlikely that your letter of rejection would explain the situation. You'd feel equally bad, even though you may have been considered a shoo-in if you'd have just applied a year earlier or later. 

     

    Second, on the "doing an MA and feeling like you're treading water" side of things. I applied to a school's PhD out of undergrad and got waitlisted. Applied again this year in the final semester of an MA (even with a shiny new publication in a big-kid journal!) -- same result. It's tempting to look at those facts side-by-side and feel like I haven't made any real progress, but of course that isn't true. My research interests are so much more specific than they were before, and having excelled in my program for two years I am 100% confident in my ability to complete a PhD. I've taught my own comp class and written a syllabus. I'm not terrified of students any more. I simply couldn't have said these things two years ago. I guess this is getting a little sappy, but I guess I wanted to say that you can end up in a situation that wasn't your top choice, kill it, and end up with something worthwhile to show for it. That's always on the table, if you work for it.

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