Related to this topic, and I'm hoping to get some feedback on my specific situation.
I am currently deciding between two programs. Each has their own strengths and weaknesses but are relatively comparable as programs, including funding when accounting for cost of living in the areas. I thought I had made up my mind (let's call it 95% sure) and was set to tell School A this week that I am accepting their offer. But... in the last week or so I received an email from School B offering me a few extra thousand dollars for half of my program length. That brought my previously 95% sure self to about 75% sure.
Previous advice in this thread indicated it would be inappropriate to leverage funding with a school that isn't your top priority, which I had no intention of doing with School B since I didn't consider it my top priority... this just kind of happened on their end, I guess.
I know School A has potential to offer incoming students a little more on top of the standardized stipend, though I am unsure of specific necessary conditions. Both schools are aware of being one of two programs I am deciding between and know who the other school is (through ways other than me).
Should I flat out tell School A my funding is now better at School B, as suggested in this thread? Should I try to be as subtle as possible, or just flat out ask? Money talk in a situation like this where it isn't really like a job offer that can be negotiated makes me a little uneasy.
Thanks in advance for any and all suggestions!