Jenmm

Hey everyone, I'm new to this community and I'm looking for some advice on how to deal with a situation that is stressing me out. I am in the process of writing my thesis and I'm set to defend in the beginning of April. Obviously, the amount of free time I have right now is severely limited. Almost everyone in my life has been super supportive of my preoccupation. Except for one of my best friends that is. I have only been able to make social plans about once a months since January, and when I do make plans, I want to spend time with more than just her because all my friends are important to me. Not to mention my significant other who has put up with me all this time. All of a sudden this friend unloads on me because apparently me not making time for 'just her' makes me a selfish b**** that doesn't think our relationship is important. This friend is not in grad school, although she is applying to med-school, and works a normal desk job. My problem is, now I'm having so many problems focusing on writing and I don't know how to resolve this situation with her so I can sleep at night....maybe sleep anyway. There is very little info out there on how people in a similar situation have dealt with it and I would love to know if any of you have handled something like this. My anxiety levels are through the freaking roof right now. Any advice is greatly appreciated!