I got into two fantastic universities for my field of study. They are both in similar locations (three hours apart), similar sized universities, similar college towns, similar program sizes, and similar rankings (ranked 9 and 12 for the program). However, one has in-state tuition and the other is out-of-state. This may seem like an obvious decision, BUT my boyfriend will be going to grad school at the out-of-state school. I'm not really interested in a long distance relationship (I've been in one before and it was too hard emotionally for me). There is some chance I will get funding for the out-of-state school, but I wouldn't find out until the enrollment date. I really want to stay with my boyfriend because I really value the relationship, but I obviously don't want to be too in debt, although I will be going into a field that pretty much guarantees me a job that has decent pay upon graduation.
Does anyone have any advice about this? Has anyone else been in a similar situation?