So I am currently waitlisted at my top choice and I am debating on contacting them for an update since I have one other acceptance offer I'm sitting on. 1. How can I sound still interested in the program, but not totally desperate to get in? 2. Should I contact my POI or the DCT? The DCT is the one who sent out the waitlist email, but since I would be working with my POI I'm thinking it would be better to contact him instead. Any advice?