Honestly, the faculty won't give a damn if the OP leaves. Maybe he/she (I'd guess a he) is too smart for the room. Apply for policy shops. Don't need a Ph.D. to work for one.
As an advisor, I wouldn't be happy if my advisee was trying to duck me. It's not aggressive to ask someone their progress. Deal with it. As for your parents, I'd tell them to back off. I hope they are not contacting faculty, as I would be leery of allowing anyone to continue in my program if their parents are that involved.