Hello @JustPoesieAlong, I'm glad to know my suggestions were helpful! I'm also a parent of two kiddos and grad school + family definitely makes our lives way more complicated, but it's doable.
About parking lot at the Friday Center, I'm not sure how demanded those spots are. There are definitely TONS of cars parked there, but the parking lot is also huge. I don't remember people not being able to park, though - but maybe it's worth to call UNC Parking to see when would be a good time to apply. I believe the monthly rate to park there is around $35.
About Victory Village, it's pricey but at the same time, it's SUCH A GOOD PLACE. I can't recommend it enough. You could have your daughter there for the entire day, and they provide all meals with your tuition. Finally, if your family is eligible, you could also apply for a scholarship to cover childcare costs through the Child Care Services Association (UNC has a partnership with them, and UNC students are eligible for scholarships, depending on how much your family makes annually.
Be sure to apply soon to Victory Village because the spots fill really quickly.
Good luck!