Hey there SQ...I am in the same (sorta) boat you are right now. I am 35, post-bacc at the UofA, working my butt off in lots of grad art classes and getting ready to apply. I had a plan for my summer...write all my prelim letters, organize, etc..but that is already out the window. I am a nervous wreck just trying to decide what schools to pick... I am a photographer and video artist, but do a lot of curating as well. I am trying to find a good overall program instead of a studio concentration, but we will see. My BA is not in art so I have been jamming classes for about a year. So far I am looking at the following:
UCSD (MFA or PhD)
U of Rochester (PhD)
UC Irvine (PhD)
UC Santa Cruz (PhD)
CCA - Social Practice
NYU
U of Buffalo - MFA Emerging Practices
UC Riverside - Visual Arts
NorthWestern - Art Theory & Practice
Pratt - MFA/MS
MICA
U Illinois - New Media
Otis
...and I am sure there are more that will make the list...
We can figure this out I'm sure...hang in there! Glad I found this forum...