redpotato, i have often found that internships and opportunities come up through various "connections" one may have within the field. unless you have a direct line into some of the more prestigious internship programs--i have found that it is often a friend of a friend, a colleague's friend, etc. that can help you get your foot in the door. cast a wide net and let people know you are on the lookout. you may be surprised as to who can connect you with someone.
this is in large part because at the larger museums you were mentioning, the internship programs are vetted by human resources before they even make their way to curatorial or education departments for consideration. so knowing someone who can help you make contact with the people you would be working with (as opposed to HR) can help you get through the red tape. just some food for thought.
mims, i definitely share your hesitation to be too forthcoming with information about myself. i will say that my interest is primarily modern and contemporary art. i have been working within my field for the last two years, and (to answer pregasausaus's question) i am hoping to teach at the college level & continue to do scholarly research and writing.
none of my programs have begun notifying, so i fluctuate between feeling eerily calm and crying to my partner about being a failure. :shock:
it seems things should pick up soon...
and congrats to the recent acceptances! my fingers are crossed for all of us.