hi everyone! i am yet another longtime lurker with waitlist questions -- i was waitlisted at 3 schools and have, of course, sent my thank-you emails to all of them. is there any etiquette surrounding follow-ups/inquiries? would it be to my benefit or detriment to check in more than once? i know they're busy, but i'm also chronically unassertive when it comes to things that i want, so i can't discern if i'm being reasonable or if i'm self-sabotaging by not emailing them more often?
also, if the waitlist notification did not come with an email to reach out to, and the director of the program doesn't have an email address publicly listed, should i just reach out to the liaison for the program as listed on their website? sorry if these are stupid questions!