I didn't waive my right to read them ... basically, I didn't check the box that said "never reading these letters ever".
It's funny though, one of my references told me what another had said as her conclusion and it was something along the lines of, "I would welcome the chance to have her as a colleague." AAAAHHHH!!! So flattering...I think it's interesting that they chose to share what they had written. I feel very fortunate to have such amazingly supportive faculty behind me .