yeah the worst thing any loved one can say to me right now is, "you're definitely getting in!!" no one can say for certain that any of us, no matter how good, are guaranteed entrance, esp in fully funded programs with so few spots, and some that may be taken by people who were forced to defer in 2025.
I have one friend reassuring me, "it's fine if you don't, you can apply again, we'll do some fun stuff this summer as a treat," and that's been a breath of fresh air.
anyways, big hugs as another first-gen applicant.