I have already submitted all my applications and now I am just really  freaking out...i'm wondering if I have actually aimed too high and will ended up in the "who does she think she is" category... 
 
here are my basic stats:  
international student, undergrad, very top university in China 
major: south asia studies (3.70/4) 
double major: sociology  (3.52/4) 
2010 GRE: 660(V) 800(Q) 5.0 (AWA) 
languages: Chinese, English, Urdu 
one year exchange experience in the US(when I was in high school)+Pakistan (sophomore year college) 
one publication on Islamic culture in south asia (just a regular journal, nothing fancy) 
Research assistant for three months 
no work exprerience 
research interest: gender, stratification, comparative sociology 
 
some schools I applied to: Stanford, Princeton, Northwestern, Brown, U Maryland, Rutgers 
 
am I aiming too high? I don't really know how the admission process actually work in the US. Thanks for all your insights in advance!