It's been interesting trying to deal with myself and my SO both applying for PhD programs. He is (seemingly) unwilling to compromise, as he believes that the only way he can succeed in life is to go to the best program (for him) that he gets into. While I am more willing to compromise, I do not want to establish a pattern in which I constantly cave or compromise what I want.
However this seem to be a non-issue at this point, as he has gotten into 4 programs and I have gotten into none. Which will cause additional problems in an of itself. He does a fair job in making sure that I'm not overly distraught, and has (probably without much thought) invited me to follow him if I don't get in anywhere (waiting to hear back from one school, fingers crossed). I do have some reservations (moving all the way across the country is scary enough when you do it for yourself, let alone following someone) but will take that step if and when I must.