I had one visit a week ago, and met with some faculty and it did not go well. Not well at all. In fact, I was told by one I had stupid questions. Um, yeah. I used some of the AHA questions I thought were pertinent and was pretty okay with using them since it is one of the largest professional organizations, so they gotta know something, right? She also had no interest in discussing my current or future research interests. Sooo...
When you go and visit and and there's the appointed "individual faculty meetings" time, what exactly do you guys talk about with them? What do you ask? I am nervous about an upcoming visit because I feel like I did something wrong by asking about the adviser-advisee rapport, what her advising style was like, etc since she told me these were stupid and inconsequential questions. I'm pretty good at figuring stuff out myself, since I already downloaded and read the graduate student handbook and guidelines from the department, but I get the feeling other people have had more in depth conversations with potential advisers upon acceptance. (Mine at this school are already selected and I know who they are.)