Seriously... If one rejection from one school is causing you this much distress, perhaps academia is not the place for you.
You may want to curb the anger in your emails to Berkeley; you will certainly not be taken seriously with such venom. I hope your emails are professionally written.
Yes, it sucks. Yes, a lot of us have grown to accept it. But, that's Capitalism for you and this process is no different.
Also, please do not tell me what I can or can not do in terms of responding to your post; you put up a very strong post and you should expect a variety of responses.
Unless you are trolling...if you are, then forget everything I said.