Hello!
I'm a first-generation student, so I'm still grappling over the 'politics' of applications and all that. How would you define "cozy up" to the professor? I've been in contact with my prospective PhD supervisor - asking her to read over my SSHRC proposal, asking a question about whether I should get a LOR from the linguistics or English department, and even to read over my statement of intent (all of which she's been 'glad' to do). In my last email I *may* have gone too far, asking if I could possibly, if it wouldn't cause problems, volunteer to work on an exciting project that's being done in the department. However, my aim hasn't been to "cozy up" to the professor...maybe just get a better feel for the department and get all the help I can! Besides, if I don't get accepted, I'll probably volunteer to help with the project anyway because it interests me a lot.
What would be going too far? (Besides the obvious, like harrassing the professor!)