hephaestion6

I recently decided that I wasn't going to be able to accept one of my offers for funding reasons, and while I love the school, I really can't afford to choose it over another, dramatically better-funded offer. But I committed to their visit weekend long before deciding this, and now am not sure what the proper etiquette is. I've already spent a lot of money on the plane ticket and need to be able to get the reimbursement. When I'm at the visit weekend, though, should I just attend the group functions but not schedule individual meetings with professors? It seems a little awkward for me to pretend like I'm still considering it, but it also seems rude to say that my mind's already made up. I'm sure this happens all the time at visit weekends and that departments are used to it - I'm just not sure how to deal with it personally. Also, on another note: they have some manuscripts I really want to look at for thesis research purposes. Is it bad form to sneak off to the library during the time reserved for meeting profs?