Reference letter - need help

[zoelee]

Hi there,

I'm a non-psychology or related field major, and have been working in an unrelated field for two decades after graduation.

Now I'm thinking of applying for the MS degree in Mental Health Counseling, but don't know whom I should turn to for the recommendation letters.

I'm not in touch with any professors from my school, so having them provide the recommendation letters is out of the question.

And I cannot use a personal friend I suppose. My therapist is willing to do it, but I heard it's unethical to do so (from the admission counselor from the program I plan on applying for).

That leaves me my coworkers and boss. But they know nothing about my interest in counseling, all they can do, I guess, is to say that I'm a reliable colleague. I also am not comfortable telling my boss that I'm applying for school again, afraid he might fire me knowing that I'm not "in love with my work" like they expect us to. 

Should I take a psy course from a community college and have the professor write the letter? Any other ways?

Any feedback is very much appreciated.

 

Zoe

 

 

[Applicant4788]

From one career-changer to another: taking some psychology courses will help you show that your interest is real, and you are dedicated to your goals. A lot of programs get applications from people who are interested in a career change, but haven't taken steps towards showing their dedication to the new field. 

You can also begin to volunteer with a mental-health related community organization, or volunteer in a psychology lab as a research assistant. 

Can I ask what your current field is?

[zoelee]

IT - web design. I tried a couple of places but they seem to want people with experience. Research assistant in a psy lab is a good idea, but I'm afraid it's the same lack of experience that gets me rejected. I've been volunteering online but the site is anonymous, and we chat one and one with people who need emotional support. So I don't see how I can find any "coworkers" or "boss" to help me with this. 

[Applicant4788]

I began volunteering in a psych lab at a public university where I was taking psych courses at night. Maybe you would want to establish yourself as a student at the university first before trying to get into the lab without experience? Or look for community mental health organizations that are looking for any kind of volunteers. Crisis hotlines, for example, usually offer training for volunteers.

[zoelee]

I applied for a local crisis hotline and didn't get in. Maybe I should keep trying. Thanks!

About taking courses, I suppose it has to be undergraduate level, right? Does it matter if it's a decent univ or community college will do? how about online courses? I work full time with two young kids, online course is convenient. But might be hard to get a recommendation letter for lack of personal interaction.