I am beginning Doctoral work in the fall after over 20 years working (mostly) in corporate America.
Over the course of the last few years investigating different programs, and just generally getting the lay of the land in my field of study, one of the most frustrating things is what I'm coming to realize might be my unrealistic expectations when it comes to returning emails.
In my current job I get hundreds of emails a day, to be fair not all of them require a response per se. When I do get an email that is asking something of me or requires me to respond, be it from a colleague or someone outside the company, I ALWAYS respond. There's no question about it. I may be busy, and it may have to wait 24, 48 or even 72 hours, but I always get back to them. Sometimes the answers are complicated, sometimes people are looking for work and explaining to them why they have not been hired or aren't getting more shifts is uncomfortable, but there is no circumstance under which you simply ignore them (unless maybe they are being aggressive or disrespectful). Have I ever missed one and not responded, yes of course, but when the person inevitably follows up I would respond right away.
So far my experience in corresponding with people in academia over email has been mixed, but there has been a large portion of people who just don't respond and they are often people who I am not corresponding with for the first time. It's absolutely maddening. Again, sometimes the subject matter may be complicated or awkward, but if you are professional adult you work through it, you figure it out and you fashion some sort of response, even if it isn't the one they were hoping for. Such is life.
As I move forward I thought it would be helpful to get others perspectives on this. As I said, it might be me, maybe this is just life in academia and I need to (and probably will) get used to it. I'm also open to, and probably guilty of, relying too much on email when I should be using the phone more, but that can be complicated too.
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I am beginning Doctoral work in the fall after over 20 years working (mostly) in corporate America.
Over the course of the last few years investigating different programs, and just generally getting the lay of the land in my field of study, one of the most frustrating things is what I'm coming to realize might be my unrealistic expectations when it comes to returning emails.
In my current job I get hundreds of emails a day, to be fair not all of them require a response per se. When I do get an email that is asking something of me or requires me to respond, be it from a colleague or someone outside the company, I ALWAYS respond. There's no question about it. I may be busy, and it may have to wait 24, 48 or even 72 hours, but I always get back to them. Sometimes the answers are complicated, sometimes people are looking for work and explaining to them why they have not been hired or aren't getting more shifts is uncomfortable, but there is no circumstance under which you simply ignore them (unless maybe they are being aggressive or disrespectful). Have I ever missed one and not responded, yes of course, but when the person inevitably follows up I would respond right away.
So far my experience in corresponding with people in academia over email has been mixed, but there has been a large portion of people who just don't respond and they are often people who I am not corresponding with for the first time. It's absolutely maddening. Again, sometimes the subject matter may be complicated or awkward, but if you are professional adult you work through it, you figure it out and you fashion some sort of response, even if it isn't the one they were hoping for. Such is life.
As I move forward I thought it would be helpful to get others perspectives on this. As I said, it might be me, maybe this is just life in academia and I need to (and probably will) get used to it. I'm also open to, and probably guilty of, relying too much on email when I should be using the phone more, but that can be complicated too.
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