Hey, I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to think through this dilemma:
I applied for PhD programs this Fall. I've heard back from 2 of the 5 schools I applied to, and I got accepted at both (one of which is a top 3 school in my area of studies). So, it's safe to say I have good options in front of me. I'm excited about the prospects.
My family (parents, siblings, extended clan) all live in the Middle East. I've lived away in the US for the past 6 years, while pursuing undergrad and a master's degree, and only moved back 7 months ago. If I choose to pursue a PhD, that would mean living away from them on another continent for the next 6 years, if not more (considering that I will be beholden to the job market). I deeply love my family, and I find deep joy in living with them. Should I not go the PhD route, I can work in my family business, which is doing exceptionally well, though as a career I would much rather prefer grad school and eventually an academic position in the humanities.
So what to do? Career or family? Of course, I know that with such little information, it's difficult to assess. But if you've been in a similar position and have some advice to offer, or even if you haven't, please let me know. Thank you!
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Hey, I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to think through this dilemma:
I applied for PhD programs this Fall. I've heard back from 2 of the 5 schools I applied to, and I got accepted at both (one of which is a top 3 school in my area of studies). So, it's safe to say I have good options in front of me. I'm excited about the prospects.
My family (parents, siblings, extended clan) all live in the Middle East. I've lived away in the US for the past 6 years, while pursuing undergrad and a master's degree, and only moved back 7 months ago. If I choose to pursue a PhD, that would mean living away from them on another continent for the next 6 years, if not more (considering that I will be beholden to the job market). I deeply love my family, and I find deep joy in living with them. Should I not go the PhD route, I can work in my family business, which is doing exceptionally well, though as a career I would much rather prefer grad school and eventually an academic position in the humanities.
So what to do? Career or family? Of course, I know that with such little information, it's difficult to assess. But if you've been in a similar position and have some advice to offer, or even if you haven't, please let me know. Thank you!
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