Body Politics Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 (edited) The application process was awful, the waiting is worse, and even though I know (that I know that I know) that I want to do this, that I want to take the fool's gamble on pursuing the Ph.D. and a career in academia, the uncertainty of whether or not this will pan out in the end is terrible. But my wife, my mom, dad, in-laws, friends, and church family have been absurdly supportive. My wife holds me up when I'm weak, reassures me that something good will come of all this, despite the odds (even if that something is unexpected), and most importantly, she believes in the work that I do. She may be bored by some of it, but she knows that it all gives me life and she sees the energy I get from reading, writing, and teaching---and she wants to support that. She's already moved once for me, and is willing to do it again. That's ridiculous. Absurd. Foolish! ...And a blessing. So. Who is it in your life that has supported you thus far in your endeavors towards the Ph.D.? They deserve an internet round-of-applause, for their ministry is incredible. Edit: Oh, and let's not forget mentors! Edited February 13, 2013 by Body Politics Soloviev and uromastyx 2
uromastyx Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 If it weren't for my parents and (now) wife I never would have reapplied after last year's complete failure. Their love and support mean the world to me. Cookie 1
Seatbelt Blue Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 My fiancee has been invaluable in helping me stay positive and on-task. I'm a real natural worrier, and she has worked wonders.
Body Politics Posted February 15, 2013 Author Posted February 15, 2013 Hazel Motes gave up Grad Cafe (and some other stuff) for Lent, so he won't see this, but he's been a real sweetheart to me, too.
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