Tracy, I feel for you; I'm also Asian, and from an Asian uni as well. When writing up a list of Grad schools I wanted to apply to, one of my LOR writers kept telling me that I should apply only to the top English programs, so I have-- with crushing results so far.
But I personally blame my application, which I think would have benefited from some feedback;
nobody around me was willing to read my WS of 20-ish pages without getting paid a handsome sum,
so I had little feedback as to how to improve it (Same thing for my poor SOP...).
Didn't know about grad cafe when I was applying-- a pity