Hi there,
To find and meet local musicians in Kansas City you have to get together at Open Mic/Jam nights, play your music and jam with other musicians. Play solo or join with whole bands. Find those you seek to fill the vacant spots in your band, find a band to join or find members to form new bands. It is free to become a member of the group!
Why you are feeling alone. Here are a few good artist songs that might help you to change the mood:
3 Doors Down-Rock/Alternative
Black Eyed Peas-Hip-Hop
Blake Shelton-Country
Bowling for Soup-Punk Rock
Brad Paisley-Country
Cascada-Trance/Dance
Chingy-Rap
Destiny's Child-Pop/R&B
Drowning Pool-Rock
Godsmack-Rock
Green Day-Punk Rock
Kelly Clarkson-Pop
Mariah Carey-R&B
Nickelback-Alternative
Pink-Pop/Rock
Reba McEntire-Country
Simple Plan-Punk Rock
Three Days Grace-Rock
Toby Keith-Country