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serotoninronin

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  1. Maybe I'll pitch it to the admins.

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    After this season is over.

     

    Anyone have any ideas for protocol when contacting a POI? I just received an e-mail from mine saying there might be a position open in the fall but she's not sure and good luck on my application. I feel like most people have ongoing communication with their POI. Anything I should do? I kind of want her to like me enough to contact the admissions board about me if we talked more. I was hoping that would give me a better chance of getting in  <_<

    Haha yea I think we're all too deep in it for our fix to disappear this season.

     

    I think just a quick reply would do fine. Nothing fancy. Thanks for the encouragement, information, etc. Reiterate how much you'd want to be a part of the program etc. etc. I'm touchy about having contact with professors for fear of seeming overeager, but it varies discipline to discipline. I

  2. Also, not all rejects are created equal.  Some aren't even close (many of you have seen those posting such sentiments on the results page, e.g. "not a fit, but had to try" or whatever) and some may be close.  It's not reasonable for adcoms or their assistants to come up with a gradient of responses to reflect just how close certain applicants are.

     

    Exactly.

     

    I've never been bothered by the tone of a rejection, honestly. The more impersonal, the more room for me to rationalize less and less depressing reasons for my rejection.

  3. I'm easy to please. One or two bars with a few local brews, some good indian food, and a movie theater will pretty much do me. It differs wildly field to field, but if you're being responsible about your future, you have to realize that the program reputation is going to make a much bigger difference in your life than a few years in a shitty town. Trade-offs, etc. I'm not a rankings junky, by any means, and I actually think they're mostly bullshit, but the reality is that they matter to your job prospects.

  4. I am losing my freaking mind!  This is absolute psychological warfare, and I can't tell if logging in to this forum is therapeutic or self-destructive.... they say catharsis only makes it worse for people...

     

    Reading everyone's "stats" is like instagram-envy on acid.

     

    Who has my antidote?

     

    Have you tried this "beer" thing?

     

    It really is terrible though, and it never gets any better. I feel like I'm almost having my most obsessive season ever, and this is, on one way of counting, my third go round on this (MA, PhD, and now an attempted transfer).

  5. Does anyone else laugh reading the description of this forum? As if waiting for decisions only increases the frequency with which I check my e-mail by just ten per day. Maybe like ten a minute.

  6. So here's a hypothetical that I may or may not be faced with soon. My fiancé and I are applying to the same programs. We are unwilling to split up (duh) and we're hoping to strike gold and both get accepted somewhere. There are a few programs for which each of us are better fits than the other, i.e. one of us probably has a better chance of getting in than the other. Here's the question: if one of us gets into a program and the other doesn't, but we have reason to believe that the program in question really really wants the one of us that they accepted, should we try to find some way to haggle with them to somehow get both of us in (maybe a conditional acceptance or something of the like)? Is this too fishy? Does it have a chance of working? Other thoughts?

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