THis was really helpful for me, thanks for all of the replies. 
  
I'm currently looking at interactive and collaborative arts MFAs as well, and find the task pretty daunting. I'm looking at programs like 
  
MIT's MEdia LAb 
Pacific Northwest College of Art's MFA in Collaborative Design 
Parson's MFA in 
Art Center College for Design's MFA in Media Design Practices 
Portland State University's MFA in Contemporary Art Practice 
UCLA's MFA in Interdisciplanary Studio 
  
I'm probaly going to add U of Iowa's New Media Program in there as well. 
  
THanks again for all of the replies