THis was really helpful for me, thanks for all of the replies.
I'm currently looking at interactive and collaborative arts MFAs as well, and find the task pretty daunting. I'm looking at programs like
MIT's MEdia LAb
Pacific Northwest College of Art's MFA in Collaborative Design
Parson's MFA in
Art Center College for Design's MFA in Media Design Practices
Portland State University's MFA in Contemporary Art Practice
UCLA's MFA in Interdisciplanary Studio
I'm probaly going to add U of Iowa's New Media Program in there as well.
THanks again for all of the replies