Oh my god this thread is so relatable. I constantly hear things along the lines of "Why are you worried? You're so smart, you'll definitely get in! You're putting all this pressure on yourself and stressing out for no reason!" from family and some acquaintances.
First, everyone else that is applying is also incredibly smart and successful, I'm actually on the lower end. Second, it is incredibly belittling to the application process to assume I'll "just get in" -- I spent months writing my SOP! And finally, I'm stressed out because I'm imagining the embarrassment that I will have to deal with if I don't get in. Because my family is just expects an acceptance. The pressure is coming from you!