Hi guys,
Sorry for the long story, but I would like to get some opinions from you on this peculiar situation!!
I was accepted by Stanford's M.S. in statistics for fall 2010. The deadline was 4/15. I was spending a lot of time deciding between my options, and ironically I was stupid enough to miss the deadline by 32 minutes. (I submitted my reply at 00:32 a.m. on 4/16). I naively assumed that the department had received my response, but I was curious why I was never contacted by the department in the past 1 week.
It is not until yesterday that I learned my spot was offered to people who were on the waitlist, which came as a total shock to me (though this is completely my mistake!). The secretary told me that since I didn't reply through the stanford online reply system (i.e. Axess), she assumed that I was not going to attend the program so gave my spot away. She also said typically they would give an extra 24 hours for people to reply, but since I didn't reply through their system, she assume I was not going to go.
She also told me that at this point the best I can do is to hope that someone would decide not to attend the university, and that is the only way I can fill in again. (basically I am on a single person waitlist with very small chance of being accepted again).
I asked her if I could talk to the professors, and she said that these kind of things backfires the student and she wouldn't encourage me to do so. At that point I felt quite helpless, because not only my reply was 30 minutes late, it was not sent through the proper channel.
And Today.....
I tried to re-read the acceptance email today, and it says:
"You may respond to our offer of admission online via Axess at http://studentaffair...ssions/admitted..."
It is not until then that I realized the email did not specify a specific way of replying, which let me believe that sending an admission reply by email should also be feasible. It is not until then I started to speculate if the secretary even read my email (even though it was late).
I also sent her an email last week, and she did not reply. She also suggested me not to talk to the professors, is this normal? I felt like if the department is willing to take the time to review a student's profile and is willing to accept him/her, they would at least try to inform the student that the spot is going away even if the student didn't reply properly by the deadline.
Do you guys think I have a chance to ask for them to make an exception? What should I do?