@anthropologygeek, I'm going to take a leap here, and I could be wrong...
You're resentful that you didn't get into ASU, that your dream school isn't as prestigious as ASU, or that the program you finished isn't as prestigious as ASU.
Welcome to the academy folks. Those at the top are happy that they're there, those who aren't wish they were. You think that its different than undergrad, that prestige doesn't matter much...but its worse.
http://savageminds.org/2010/04/21/who-needs-alumni-from-top-schools/
Savage Minds did a piece on it. Talking about how in the job market, you'd rather have someone from AK state than Yale, because the AK state kid is a better teacher, and more used to the realities of teaching. There is a serious caveat to that though. Take that teaching job at Ball State, and say goodbye to having the time resources to publish research...and last time I checked, most of us going to grad school are interested in actually doing academic work first, and being good teachers second, and doing random university crap last. It would be very mean, but one could chart high-impact publications in the discipline and see where they come from to prove the point.
Sure there are some awesome up-and-coming programs in places you wouldn't exactly expect...UCSD, UCI are great examples of public schools that have strong...but at the end of the day, its because of their faculty...who come from top schools. There's no way around it. Let's take UCI (socio-cultural) as an example. This is where the faculty did their PhDs:
Northwestern
Stanford
Stanford
Stanford
UCLA
Harvard
Harvard
UCLA
Wisconson
Stanford
Stanford
Stanford
Rice
UCLA/UCB
Columbia
Stanford
The upper crust of programs makes its presence known, and seem to create powerhouses themselves. Can someone name an up-and-coming department made of the kind of "blue collar" academics that the savageminds commenters discuss? I would like to see it and hope that its there...I'd like to be proven wrong, but I cant think of someone going to uchicago for a b.a. and then Idaho state for a phd. (though i can see it for a phd to prof position).
So my advice? Find the top program with your fit. FIT IS KEY (which is why buying a book with anthro rankings is pretty useless...what you want is the current research interests of the faculty you want to work with...and you really only need 2 strong matches). Then shoot for the stars. Landing on the moon isn't half bad.