@litzzie @Neist Hi everyone! This is my first time posting. I have just been accepted into some programs, and I too am nervous about being a parent. To be honest, I'm so scared of the negative connotations it may have to those in academia, that I haven't told my prospective PI or lab. I plan to just let it kind of organically "leak out" in conversation as this is usually what I do in any circumstance whether academic or not. In my opinion, it shouldn't matter if I have a family or not, but I know it may scare away people in fear I may not be able to work as hard or what have you. Here's hoping it all works out!