Thank you for the support and suggestions.
I always try to be involved in "academic" work. In fact, I was just invited to be a guest speaker in a conference in another university in the area. I'll probably accept.
After spending the evening browsing other schools' websites, I came to the conclusion I'll have to apply someplace far from here, which would require me to relocate. I honestly do NOT want to move away, but if I have to, I will. I do, in fact, have connections, and it's a matter of re-aquainting myself with certain people who can help me. In fact, back in the fall one or two OFFERED to do just that, but I was steadfast about going to this school that oh so graciously rejected me (after woing me. back in the summer, the head of the dept met with me and I got the grand tour, and was told other applicants are not treated that way!). Fine. It's back to New England then. Dammit.