hey!! happy to help! ik it's a super stressful time for applicants rn. long story short, no, i did not end up going to uwm. i instead let my prof know that i was planning to commit to another program, so i didn't really give the prof enough time to accept or reject me. however, i do remember being fairly confident that i was going to be accepted since it was btw me and one other person who ended up reaching out to me on here and telling me that they were rejected. looking back, i understand that the process was taking awhile at uwm bc they were getting funding opportunities sorted out so the prof's hands were tied but idk ... i didn't like that i had to ask to be connected to other grad students, virtually sit in on a lab meeting, etc. these were all experiences that other programs offered to me, which just made me feel more wanted. if you're going through a similar situation i would maybe ask the prof to be as transparent as possible and just really express your interest in the program (e.g., ask about zooming in for a lab meeting, get one of their grad student's emails to chat with them). good luck!