I think I can literally smell the stress we are all under -- I think all of us have individual reasons for applying and at the same time individual qualifications that we feel set us apart and
deserving of a "slot" at a great school. I've read with a great deal of apprehension the great stats of many on here and wondered if I can "compete." I will say this is a rather messy system (grad apps), yet I'm not sure how in the devil it could be improved upon. I, for one, don't really envy anyone sitting on these committees trying to sort through the differences, both big and small, between us.
I can legitimately see being rejected by all the schools to which I've applied as well as accepted at each one too. Since most of us are high achievers, our own lack of control within a system with very little quantifiable (no pun intended) side-boards is driving all of us at least a little crazy. (I know I'm doing a lot of pacing and I never paced in my entire life!)
Simultaneously, we have another crowd (current ABD's and others) telling us how simple-minded we are for considering this path in life to begin with.
So to everyone here -- this does in fact suck, you are probably more than qualified for at least some of the places you applied, let's just all try to keep from screaming at each other and get through this.