Wow, so thank you for such an informative, and detailed post.
First just to get this out of the way GRE... I am not worried about quant section, I expect to score above a 700. I am a little rusty in some of the math, but when I took it at the CC, at the time it was all quite easy.
I never took geometry in high school, so that will probably my most difficult section, but it does not seem too hard so far. I am using the GMAT/ GRE a systematic approach book by Sid Thatte, and I am also working through the exercises on Khan Academy.
My biggest concern is the verbal, not because I have a small vocabulary or anything, simply because I have heard its a total crapshoot. I will keep working on bringing up my score, I am hoping to take it before the new test goes in to effect, but I have decent amount of time left before then.
On to the SoP, thanks for the advice on emphasizing research and not teaching. I have ordered Donald Asher's book "Write Your Way Into the Graduate School of Your Choice", which will hopefully help with the SoP's.
As far as my school picks... some of them are on the list for practical reasons, others because they are a strong fit for me.
I am currently working on a spreadsheet with all the schools I plan to apply to (I know I am not the only who did this haha) I have already weeded out quite a few that I did not think would work for me.
My #1 choice is by and large, Stanford, particularly for Poverty and Inequality, but that is a huge long shot.
Most I have found have full-time faculty working directly in my areas of interest, the rest are still somewhat related.
I am applying to some for practical reasons because my partner is also hoping to get into a PhD. education program ( I know, I know, believe me I know) so I am applying for multiple schools in the same region (i.e. Harvard, BU and BC)
My accepting is not contingent on her getting in, but we are trying anyway. Her profile is better than mine anyway. She has a 3.7 GPA from Haverford in Anthropology and an M.P.A. from Washington State with a 3.97 GPA and she got a 1340 on the GRE the first time around. Her score is expired now (6 years ago) so we are studying to retake together.