I like the recommendations OUTSIDE of the typical and AWAY from the east coast. God, what a breath of fresh air! I have been looking at some of the schools you mentioned. Very valid points as to what you want out of a grad program, studio space, instruction, connections, experience teaching... I am looking for a painting program and I don't care if it's Egypt or Minnesota, I just want a good program, with a committed passionate instructor base.
I have heard so many perspectives on this topic. I just talked to a friend who TA'd through his entire degree and that covered his tuition. However, he complained he didn't have enough time to paint. I have heard to people who have gone to one of the big name schools and come out "with nothing." Really seek what you want and where you want it.
MFA's have turned into an industry. Think about it, how many people are churned out each year with an MFA and are doing something with it?! This is big business and big money. I have seen a lot of crap art and mediocre art come out of "good" places...
Myself, I want a grad school that will push my work to the next level. Therefore I am looking for a reputable program with killer instructors in the aesthetic that I want to push. All that I can do from there is pray and have a good back up plan :-)
If you don't know what you want, maybe you shouldn't apply yet...