@Babar - at least they told you they dont do deferrals, i have been requesting a deferral for a week now but haven't heard back from the director of graduate studies and dont even know if its allowed! altho to be honest the graduate office has been very helpful otherwise and the people there seem very polite. have to look into this fullbright thing, sounds kinda sketchy tho, but thanks for the tip and best of luck with your admissions, just stay patient it will happen
@arcyoung - thank you for your sympathy! any chance you'd be sympathetic enough to send me a $80,000 check with that? ;-) yes you are right i wont get visa clearance without any proof of funding and the only funding i could get right now are loans which i am unwilling to take up (i'd be paying back a huge sum, nearly 2 million in my currency, over years if i did) so basically i am screwed right now. but its okay, i didnt apply anywhere else this year and applying to NSSR was easy because they didnt ask for a GRE score or TOEFL so that saved me some cash, I am planning to apply again if this doesnt work out, so... In the meantime i guess i will have to maintain my position as a student by deferring my admission, so that i can apply for schols, which need me to have been admitted to a school already, but in case i dont get any schol the money i will pay to maintain my spot will obviously be money lost down the drain!
@anthroDork - hahaha, might be. i repeatedly asked both the graduate student assistants and the international student advisors to put me in touch with international students who are present graduates so that they can give me some pointers but was told that thei office was unauthorised to provide me with contact email addresses of the students, something regarding some amendment in the constitution. Its funny cause the student directory online provides many email addresses, i cant use them though because they dont tell me who is an international student and who isn't, it'd be weird to mail everyone in the department telling them to help me out!