I don't know anything about your program but I do know Clemson. Clemson is a college town in the truest sense of the word. It's a safe area but it's not meant for families. Bar scene is the main thing going on there. Renting an apartment anywhere in Clemson or Central will mean noisy neighbors. I might recommend Seneca. Its a 15 min. commute (20 tops if you're on the far side of town) with a little more going on, access to some shopping, and more activities on the weekend for families. Anderson is a small city also about 20 mins from Clemson, although the downtown area doesnt seem too safe to me. Greenville is a really nice city, lots to do, 45 minute drive to Clemson. Never heard about too much crime in Greenville. I moved to Clemson from NY so rent/groceries/gas seemed cheap to me everywhere! As a young woman living alone, crime seemed fairly low in general. Like I said, only time I felt uncomfortable was in certain parts of Anderson, never in Clemson or elsewhere.