If money's no object...I have a friend who is commuting from Brooklyn to Rutgers. Every. Day. for his PhD in English. While I would never do it, he claims it's no bigs (he leaves the house at 8:30 and beats the rush somehow to the Holland Tunnel). He has a car, and that's why he lives in BK (for the "free" parking). If you started in Manhattan, it would probably be more doable. I'd suggest, though, looking to live on the other side of the Hudson simply because if one of those river crossings is down on a day of a huge presentation, etc., that would be awful.