I really appreciate this post. I just got accepted to Irvine yesterday and will visit in a about a month, but my expectations are low because of the stereotypes about the place. I think I could survive 2 years of coursework there if I had to and the housing offer helps. I'm thinkinig I could always move back to Northern California to write my dissertation, but I am definitely concerned about my quality of life plummeting while living in Irvine. I'm trying to keep an open mind, so we'll see.