Informal offer – What to reply when still waiting? (Social Psych)

[kabelo]

One of my POIs emailed me today that he was "really impressed" with my record (he referred to specifics) and that he wants to admit me to the program. While this is great news, he said he wants to check my "level of interest" before the department makes any official decisions. So this is where things get tricky. The school would be a great fit but I also have a few other applications pending that are even more attractive. Since the apps are going well so far (interview invitations from Ivies etc.) I don't want to commit myself now.

 

What should I reply? I was thinking to be honest and tell him that I am really interested but that I'm still waiting for the outcomes of other apps before I can make a decision. The thing is, I really like his work and would love to collaborate with him either way, so I don't want to burn any bridges.

 

Any advice would be much appreciated!

Edited January 17, 2013 by kabelo

[Bearcat1]

You tell him you are interested. Period. That's not a commitment, and you ARE interested, so it's not a lie. And maybe throw in that you're flattered or excited or whatever. Everyone will know (or assume) that you have other offers, so I think what they're looking for it just a reassurance that you are still interested and they have a chance at getting you. Otherwise they don't want to waste a spot for you. So if there's any chance of you going there, you say yes, you're interested. And congrats!

[lypiphera]

I think what you (OP) said and Bearcay said is reasonable.  I would say honestly that you do have other interviews, but that you are very interested in and excited about their program.  I wouldn't want them to misunderstand and think that I was committing, evne if I didn't directly say it, but you want them to know that you are strongly considering them.

[kabelo]

Thank you guys, I just emailed him.