So I am still waiting from Harvard (not going to happen bcs of many reasons but also someone mentioned that they already notified, Upenn and Michigan (near eastern studies) but I really don't think anything will happen. This has been my third time in life and life is so much in the way at 30 with dependents and I had thought this time things would be different but no I was wrong. I really have no effort, energy, time, money left for another fourth row of applications not to mention the harassment of professors for writing yet another reference letter.
Anyway Cornell has given me a potential chance to go to their M.A. but it will cost like hell and I cannot probably go there unless I get Green Card residency in the USA (hence loans) or win the lottery.
I am looking for advice.
Europe is out of question, UK is too expensive and I would not compare the education elsewhere with the USA anyway.
Should we try aaaaalllll our possibilities for this non funded Master's? Can it lead to a PhD in the future or at least help something??
Should I come there as a special student to some places I applied and audit courses to see?
Should we come with a tourist visa and see the environment and decide then?
Any other ideas? suggestions?