Kansas City is about the size of Seattle, if you have ever been there (probably a little smaller). Public transportation is awful, as all places in the Midwest that I've seen. You will need a car, unless you are happy not being able to really get around. There is some wonderful food here. If you are actually coming, may I suggest the dining along 39th street, the westport area, and some stuff in Brookside/Waldo. City developers have been working hard on the downtown area, but it is still largely under construction and a bit more trendy than I can usually be (both in person and in funding). All of those areas are easily reached by a google, I imagine. Music is okay, if you like Jazz and Blues. There is some small grunge/emo-metal/indie things going on, but I doubt it could be much different than anywhere else (largely existing in house parties and the like...) We get some touring bands, but often we miss big names. We had Billy Joel; Bruce Springsteen skipped over us. (I like folk music, so my examples tend that way.) For middleweight performers, we get some (Lucinda Williams, 311, The Killers, just some concerts that were around recently, or perhaps last summer, sheesh I notice nothing when I'm in school), but again, often we get jumped, or we have to drive around a lot. In the last year, I've been to Iowa, Lawrence, Columbia, and Nebraska for music. KC just isn't a big enough magnet, but the area usually gets hit. Night life is okay. Over half the bars close at 1:30, but some are open until 3 (special permit situation). If you are into it, we have three disc golf courses, several regular golf, three theatres that show non-mainstream movies (Tivoli cinema is the best!). I'm trying to think of other things... If you have direct questions, I could answer. There is a lot to do, just not everything to do. We visited NYC this summer and I was blown away. That place doesn't stop. We aren't like that and our arts leave a lot to be desired. The Nelson-Atkins museum has some nice collections, and there is a sort of new thing called the Crossroads district starting up, but it doesn't amount to a great "culture" feeling, if you know what I mean. What I do like about KC, there are a lot of good people, specifically in the midtown area, and while the community is not as apparent as other places, it is there. But indeed, it takes some poking around to find it. Yeah, if you have interests, I have been here a while and would be happy to give you more details that are tailored to your specifics.