girlegirl

School Name: James Madison University Degree: PhD Type: Psychological Assessment and Measurement How were you notified: website Not admitted: 2 Still waiting: 5 Wishing everyone the best of luck on their applications! This is my second year applying to programs and I am okay with that because I am almost finished with a M.S. degree and subsequently so have my research interests in the field. This is NOT the end of your world. We are bigger than this saturated, non-transparent process. I like to believe that everything happens for a reason; however, I also believe in miracles! Chin up guys! Lets keep each other thinking positive!

Love the idea of this topic! Throughout this whole experience (its my second year applying to phd programs in psychology), Ive learned that those who have not applied to PhD programs will never understand how grueling and exhausting the process can be. Its extensive, requires a lot of effort, organization, meticulous planning, preparation, persistence and hard work! Only the tough survive. I have found that the best thing you can do after you turn in your applications is to turn to people who do understand your plight. Thats why I have a select group of supportive people in my life who DO understand this situations and will respect and understand my many mood swings during this crucial yet sensitive period in my life. O Where shall I start.... Older sister: "It's not the end of the world, I wouldn't stress" and quickly changes the subject Mother: "Wait, don't you need a master's degree first before you get your PhD?" Boyfriend: "You have a compelling background and demonstrated ability, why wouldn't you get in?" Friend: "Don't get frustrated, go jogging like I do" One of my letter writers/Experimental Psychologist: "You have good credentials, you will get in somewhere" Best Friend/Pharmacist, Pharm.D.: "I only applied to one PhD program and I got in. So if you're applying to 7 programs....." Mother: "Oh well, life goes on" Mentor/Clinical Psychologist: "Always have your Plan B ready" Older sister: "Keep applying and eventually you will be get in" like I have the rest of my life to pursue this??!! Older sister: "...and connections are everything!!" She majored in international relations and spent her graduate school years partying it up in NYC with other party animals. She thinks academia is about "connections" rriiiiiiiggghhht. And the number #1 most annoying saying: "You will get in somewhere and you know it!"