Oh, I understand. I come from a conservative Jewish family. You can imagine the reaction when I said that I wasn't going to attend law school and that I was planning to get a PhD in medieval literature. I might as well have told them that I was getting a sex change operation and planned to pursue full-time prostitution in order to support my heroin addiction. My parents have come around and realized that it will be okay because they can still tell their friends I am a doctor (though I have a sneaking suspicion they will omit exactly what kind of doctor...) but the rest of my family constantly jokes about it. They are all very successful lawyers, doctors, and high powered buisness executives. They cannot understand why I would go to such lengths to get a degree that would not result in a fat pay check. In fact, my cousin was in town this past weekend and "jokingly" asked if I could translate a Newsweek article into Old English. Jerk. Also, because most of my family is extremely wealthy I am constantly asked how I plan to live off of a professor's salary and if my plan is to marry rich. It is sad, they cannot seem to understand that happiness is far more important than material wealth.
Oh, and as far as friends go, I think I get asked by virtually everyone who I discuss my career plans with if I intend to work at Renn. fest. This pisses me off more than anything, DON'T THEY REALIZE THAT THE RENNAISANCE AND THE MIDDLE AGES ARE TWO DIFFERENT PERIODS? omg. ok. I'll calm down now.
Point it, few people seem to really understand what goes in to this career path. So many people are so ignorant to just what it takes to get a PhD and then to make your way in this field. If only they knew...