I'm seriously considering leaving the SF Bay Area in CA, where I've lived most of my adult life (over 20 years) for a grad school program in the midwest. I grew up in the northeast and have barely even *been* to the midwest (I've driven through a few times.) I have three young kids. Any tips? Do's and don'ts? Am I nuts? Also, I'm Jewish and queer-ish (single, and open to dating people of any gender.) FY, I prob can't make it out for a trip before deciding - I'll be lucky if I can swing an advance trip to find housing. I'm definitely leaning towards going, so how to do it tips are especially welcome. Also, anyone else in the same (or a similar) boat? Thanks!