Thanks again for your reply, it's such a stressful time and it's really hard to find people who know anything at all about the system.
You know, just another 20k (like Chicago) would really be enough to push me to go. I might say this in my e-mail.
Re. other offers, I tried to drop it in very slyly "I am pleased to have been offered a number of funded places..." but I think I might just push it forward a tiny bit more. I still don't understand why he said it's "rather unlikely" I would get the funding. I want to go to Yale, and the states, so bad . I'll try and send something off tonight, I am polite but I don't want to seem servile.
I suppose there's always next year, but I don't want to pass up an offer with funding at all, I know it's rare for masters in the US.