I've got a question for you application grinders.
When writing to faculty at prospective schools, is it best to cut right to the point with questions? Or is it wiser to butter up first?
Say I'm looking for clarification with the portfolio review panel. Would faculty (who I assume to be busy) rather answer a bulleted list of questions, or do they want a well-written paragraph with a personable tone?
I know you only get to make a first impression once, so I don't really want to shoot myself in the foot by appearing excessively frank or demanding.
Also, how faux pas is it to send a site link to faculty? "Hey i dig your school, do you feel like looking at my work in your down time? Maybe throwing some knowledge gems my way?"